Interview Nathalie Pham: „Life just happened, and this is where it is at.” (Part 2)
Reto Stuber interviews people, who made their way to the US. Today: Nathalie Pham, startup founder and artist.
Did you have the chance to gain some US-related experience before the move?
I did have the experience and my only access were the horror stories of a dear friend who just visited the California a few weeks before I had to leave. Given my age it was a very scary experience: I left a cultural and political rich life in the town surrounded by the beautiful black forest to move to the desert with no cultural programming and no public transportation. I was land looked and had no cultural access. Scottsdale has changed much in the last years, but there was no contemporary art when I went to High School.

How did your friends react that you were about to leave Germany?
My friends were shocked and I think many did not know what to say. I think deep down we all knew that this would be the last time I could see them again for a very long time. If I had been older, it would have been different.
With 16, I could make the math that I would not have the income to visit Germany soon. In Germany I earned 27 DM/per hour at my first job (lucky draw) – and in Scottsdale, I made $5.25/per hour and a plane ticket was about $800-$1000 at that point.
It would take me about 5-6 years to return back to Germany for the first time, and by then I lost contact with many of my friends because we lived such different lives.

Do you still have connections to your old hometown?
I still have two close friends in Germany – one childhood friend, Anika, – and Moni who I met in Pforzheim on a trip to Italy. I travel to Germany all two years on my way to Venice to see the Venice Biennale.
It is tough for me to travel to Germany because I miss it and I have a very hard time leaving it. My life is here in New York, but I always wonder how my life would have played if I would have stayed. I thought previously many times of moving back, but my boy friend is from Latin America. I think he would have a hard time in Germany, because it is a difficult place if you do not speak fluent German (outside of Berlin) and are not blood German. We would both deal with some aspect of discrimination, but I think he would have a tougher time since he does not speak the language. Germans accept me as German because I speak it without an accent and certainly know all the local expressions.
What is the role of your Vietnamese heritage in your present life?
Now-in the US it does not matter as much. When I was living in Germany, it was a bit tougher, because my sister and I were the only Asians in the Gymnasium in Lampertheim. It was hard for me to realize that I was not a part of the crowd.
In the last part of this Interview, Nathalie will talk about the nationalities she represents – Vietnamese, German and American.
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